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[ ] There is a decline of sexual activity early in your marriage/relationship that never
picks up again. He tries to convince you that all relationships have a
decline in sex even when you’ve only been together for a few years.

[ ]  He
is turned-off by normal sexual activity and accuses you of being
oversexed, aggressive, or a nymphomaniac when you have normal sexual
needs.

[ ]  His sexual performance is more mechanical than passionate with a lack of satisfying foreplay.

[ ]  He claims he is "depressed" and will blame his depression or medication for depression for his lack of sexual desire for you.

[ ]  You
find sexual enhancers such as Viagra or Cialis hidden in his private
hiding places, but you know he hasn't made any attempt to have sex with
you.

[ ]  He tells you that he wants you to use sex toys on him because he needs his prostate stimulated or because he likes kinky sex.

[ ]  He erases the computer history on a regular basis.

[ ]  You find pop-ups of gay pornography on the computer while he claims they are not his.

[ ]  He spends excessive time texting people at irregular hours.

[ ]  He starts to spend more time at the gym and works on changing his appearance.

[ ]  He claims that he feels “trapped” in the marriage and won’t explain why.

[ ]  He travels a lot for business and you can’t track his activities.

[ ]  He says he is having a "mid-life crisis" and becomes moody and depressed.

[ ] He tells you about sexual abuse in his childhood/adolescence.

[ ]  He admits to having a homosexual encounter in the past.

[ ] He uses the word "bisexual."

[ ] He visits gay bars claiming he’s there only to hang out with his gay friend(s).

[ ] He watches porno movies with gay male scenes.

[ ] He makes continual homophobic comments or he makes too many gay comments in conversations.

[ ] His ego appears to be boosted by compliments from gay men.

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