Aa, att missköta sina egna tänder verkar vara ett bra sätt att straffa någon annan. Guldstjärna där

Plejadisk Panda:
Aa, att missköta sina egna tänder verkar vara ett bra sätt att straffa någon annan. Guldstjärna där

Straffa? Jag straffar honom inte?

Måste öva på min engelska, kanske inte bästa stället att göra det men ja, måste börja använda det mer. Hoppas att det är okej med engelskt "svar". Det är mina tankar bara...

Well now, surely Panda presumably ment that... by neglecting your father's dictating words, you supposedly ment to defy him and his command by rejecting your own tooth brushing to show him that he ought not to act the way he did in the future – because what he did was wrong. Well, that is indeed one way to handle the very matter. However... by doing so, it comes with the cost of reduced hygiene, and that part strikes back at yourself. ...Therefore, Panda does not see any effectiveness in what you did.

As of what I say is... your father attempts to mean well and caring about you, although, at the same time he obviously missed out on the importance of being kind in that aspect. Perhaps he were being stressed out at the moment and mayhap that is the matter for each and every time when he starts to act like that.

Of course, I have no clue about the situation between you two. Maybe it would be wise of you to meditate for a while on this, and by so realising the actual cause of how these circumstances appears and how to avoid further inconvenience between you two. Hopefully you will reach a solution.

You do as you like but consider your fathers thoughts as sometimes a person or a parent can see what may be best for you, not always though, just keep that in mind. But again, he took the wrong approach to elucidate that one to you. Most likely he is being stressed out or frustrated about something, rather than trying to be rude to you and piss you off, as pointing out that tooth brushing is important – would be a considerably minor thing for a parent to care about, if he did not care a great deal about you. However, with that not said that there is a chance that he is being rude on purpose, than that is sad but still there should be an explanation to it. Mayhap these situations would improve to the better if you two were to talk about this and how you feel. Maybe cringe indeed, but still, it would possibly be worth it for the best of you two. Anger and frustation is something that tears on you.

Anyhow, your gum seems to have been brushed to harsh. Infected gum usually tends to be slightly (or considerably) whitened. By so said, you more likely brush your gum to aggresive rather than to rarely. Still, one ought to brush ones theeths (no more and no less) than twice a day for a fresh and healthly mouth. I do expect you to already be aware of this fact but still, it would not hurt to point that one out.

Crysilis:
Måste öva på min engelska, kanske inte bästa stället att göra det men ja, måste börja använda det mer. Hoppas att det är okej med engelskt "svar". Det är mina tankar bara...

Well now, surely Panda presumably ment that... by neglecting your father's dictating words, you supposedly ment to defy him and his command by rejecting your own tooth brushing to show him that he ought not to act the way he did in the future – because what he did was wrong. Well, that is indeed one way to handle the very matter. However... by doing so, it comes with the cost of reduced hygiene, and that part strikes back at yourself. ...Therefore, Panda does not see any effectiveness in what you did.

As of what I say is... your father attempts to mean well and caring about you, although, at the same time he obviously missed out on the importance of being kind in that aspect. Perhaps he were being stressed out at the moment and mayhap that is the matter for each and every time when he starts to act like that.

Of course, I have no clue about the situation between you two. Maybe it would be wise of you to meditate for a while on this, and by so realising the actual cause of how these circumstances appears and how to avoid further inconvenience between you two. Hopefully you will reach a solution.

You do as you like but consider your fathers thoughts as sometimes a person or a parent can see what may be best for you, not always though, just keep that in mind. But again, he took the wrong approach to elucidate that one to you. Most likely he is being stressed out or frustrated about something, rather than trying to be rude to you and piss you off, as pointing out that tooth brushing is important – would be a considerably minor thing for a parent to care about, if he did not care a great deal about you. However, with that not said that there is a chance that he is being rude on purpose, than that is sad but still there should be an explanation to it. Mayhap these situations would improve to the better if you two were to talk about this and how you feel. Maybe cringe indeed, but still, it would possibly be worth it for the best of you two. Anger and frustation is something that tears on you.

Anyhow, your gum seems to have been brushed to harsh. Infected gum usually tends to be slightly (or considerably) whitened. By so said, you more likely brush your gum to aggresive rather than to rarely. Still, one ought to brush ones theeths (no more and no less) than twice a day for a fresh and healthly mouth. I do expect you to already be aware of this fact but still, it would not hurt to point that one out.

I see your point, it's not like I haven't heard it before, from somebody else of course.
The thing is that he's always like this when he tries to teach me something but I tend to ignore him because he's always yelling at me but according to him, he only raises his voice a little to make himself heard, but I think that's absolute bs.

My dad has never really been fond of me, not even when I was a child, and I've gradually become more resistant to his hurtful words and I've become more independent and thus I don't listen to him when he is yelling at me because to me it feels like he's just trying to force his will onto me and I won't take that.

He says that we, the others, should listen to him and we try not to be completely ignorant but sometimes he speaks his mind and it isn't pretty words. However, whenever we tell him what we think he acts as though it doesn't matter and just shrugs it off like it's complete nonsense and he has the guts to say that we don't listen to him. Because of this, I have no real respect for him and I utterly despise him, and that's never going to change because he's never behaved any differently and he isn't willing to change because he always think that he's right but that's just stupid.

Btw, you don't need to practice on your English, it's just fine although you seem a little too formal for a site made for adolescents but it doesn't really matter since I understood you =)

i think your father have some real anger issues and issues in general, as most people do, and he's trying to make himself feel better by getting rid of all the rage that accumulates from his unhealthy mode of living, and this anger is taken out upon things that "Misbehave" in general in his surroding, in a mechanical fashion, things that are supposed to "Be in a certain way" because he "knows" that it is best according to him. in actuality, outside of his reality, it is however not such a big of a deal, and maybe you could perhaps have some pity, that tends to make things smoother.

so i'd advice you to move around those factors in what ways you can and veiw it with more distans if you are able to, hugs<3

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