http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/rape.html

OBS: sidan har även utförliga och pragmatiska genomgångar för hur man undviker våld och vad som sker och måste finnas för att våld ska se.

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*WARNING* Here at NNSD, our goal is not damage control, it is prevention.

There are many organizations and groups who will help a woman who has been raped with putting her life back together and dealing with rape trauma syndrome (a form of PTSD). They will also help her pursue legal action against her assailant. After a rape occurs establishing emotional stability and a person getting her world back together is desperately needed (and often so too is long-term therapy). This is what we mean by 'damage control.' Those organizations can help a woman deal with the trauma immediately after she's been sexually assaulted.
But that's not what we're about. What we are about is to keep you from being raped in the first place. Two points guide our attitude:

1) No damage control is ever as good as prevention.

2) By the time a situation gets to sexual assault, ALL of your options suck

As astounding as it may sound, these attitudes puts us at odds with many of the popular agendas about rape and their advocates.
What you are going to read on these pages is extremely controversial. In fact, this section has been the source of not only the most hate e-mail we've received, but the most virulent.
There are three reasons we've been taken off so many people's Christmas card list is, in order to prevent something, you have to be pragmatic. Sometimes, uncomfortably so.

The first reason we are unpopular with many is that we approach the subject with other priorities than emotion -- whether that's the emotional fervor and outrage of many advocates or trying to protect the fragile process of reestablishing the victim's well being. While emotion is a factor in our work, it is NOT our primary concern.
Emotions, blame and outrage are post-incident issues.
Again, our focus is prevention. That means not putting yourself into situations, where no matter what you do, the results will be traumatic. We are about pre-incident issues.
We tell you this now, because if emotions are your priority regarding this subject, stop reading now. You'll only get upset.
The second reason we are unpopular is that we discuss the issue of personal responsibility. Specifically, we're not about 'blame.' We ARE about understanding the consequences of one's actions -- whether these are intended or unintended consequences.
We will tell you getting so drunk at a party that you pass out is a bad idea.
We'll tell you, if you do that, you are literally setting yourself up to be raped. This, as opposed to the advocate at the Rape Crisis Center who defended passing out drunk surrounded by intoxicated strangers by saying "A girl has the right to have fun."
Our response is: You may have the 'right' to sleep on the train tracks, but that won't prevent you from being hit by a train.
And that brings us to the third reason we're not well liked by people who are more emotional (rather than pragmatic) about this subject.
We look at the behavior of everyone involved. We look at 'what conditions must be present in order for a rape to occur.'
In order to help you avoid being raped, we need to take a good hard look at how rape occurs, rather than how people think it happens. That takes it out of agendas, idealism and visions about how the world 'should be' and puts it into practical things you can do to prevent from being raped.

Because the difference between how you think rape happens and how it actually happens can be the same difference as to whether you are raped or not."

väldigt mkt värdefull information; hur man ska agera när man befinner sig i en situation som lutar mot våldtäkt, ytterst vanliga personlighetsdrag hos våldtäktsmän, vilka förutsättningar som måste finnas för att en våldtäkt ska kunna ske(man måste vara ensam med gärningsmannen osv) sjukt mycket information och det tar ett tag att läsa men det kanske det kan vara värt om det leder till att risken för att utsättas för en våldtäkt minskar betydligt.

nu har jag försökt iaf =)